Caring For Your Child

Newborn Care

Feeding

Whether you're breastfeeding or formula feeding, your newborn should eat every 2-3 hours. Look for signs that your baby is getting enough to eat, such as:

  • 6-8 wet diapers per day
  • Regular bowel movements
  • Steady weight gain
  • Content after feeding

Sleep

Newborns sleep 16-17 hours a day, but only in short periods of 2-4 hours. Always place your baby on their back to sleep on a firm, flat surface with no pillows, blankets, or toys.

Diapering

Change your baby's diaper whenever it's wet or soiled. Clean the diaper area thoroughly with each change and allow to dry before putting on a new diaper to prevent diaper rash.

Bathing

Until the umbilical cord falls off (usually 1-3 weeks), give your baby sponge baths. After that, bathe your baby 2-3 times a week using mild soap and warm water.

When to Call the Doctor

Contact us if your newborn has a fever over 100.4°F, is feeding poorly, has fewer wet diapers than normal, or shows signs of illness.

Common Childhood Illnesses

Fever

A fever is a temperature of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher. Fevers are a sign that the body is fighting an infection.

Home Care:

  • Keep your child comfortable and offer plenty of fluids
  • Dress them in light clothing
  • Use appropriate fever-reducing medication (acetaminophen or ibuprofen) as directed

When to Call the Doctor:

  • Infants under 3 months with any fever
  • Children with fever over 102.2°F that doesn't respond to medication
  • Fever lasting more than 3 days
  • Child looks or acts very sick

Colds

The common cold is a viral infection causing runny nose, congestion, cough, and sometimes fever.

Home Care:

  • Ensure plenty of rest and fluids
  • Use a cool-mist humidifier to ease congestion
  • Saline nose drops can help clear nasal passages
  • For children over 1 year, honey can help soothe a cough

When to Call the Doctor:

  • Fever over 102°F
  • Symptoms lasting more than 10 days
  • Severe earache or headache
  • Difficulty breathing

Ear Infections

Ear infections often follow a cold and cause ear pain, fever, irritability, and sometimes fluid draining from the ear.

Home Care:

  • Use appropriate pain relievers (acetaminophen or ibuprofen)
  • Apply a warm compress to the affected ear

When to Call the Doctor:

  • Severe ear pain
  • Symptoms not improving after 2-3 days
  • Fever over 102°F
  • Fluid draining from the ear

For detailed advice on managing specific conditions, please call our office at 203-637-3212.

Growth & Development

Children develop at different rates, but there are general milestones to expect at various ages. Regular well-child visits help track your child's growth and development.

2 Months

Social/Emotional:

  • Begins to smile at people
  • Can briefly calm themselves

Language/Communication:

  • Coos, makes gurgling sounds
  • Turns head toward sounds

6 Months

Cognitive:

  • Looks around at things nearby
  • Shows curiosity and tries to get things out of reach

Physical Development:

  • Rolls over in both directions
  • Begins to sit without support
  • Supports weight on legs when standing

1 Year

Social/Emotional:

  • Is shy or nervous with strangers
  • Cries when mom or dad leaves
  • Has favorite things and people

Language/Communication:

  • Responds to simple spoken requests
  • Uses simple gestures like shaking head "no"
  • Says "mama" and "dada"

Nutrition & Exercise

Healthy Eating

A balanced diet is essential for your child's growth and development. Offer a variety of foods from all food groups:

  • Fruits and vegetables
  • Whole grains
  • Lean proteins
  • Dairy or dairy alternatives

Limit:

  • Sugary drinks and snacks
  • Processed foods
  • Fast food

Physical Activity

Regular physical activity is important for your child's health. Recommendations by age:

Infants:

Tummy time, reaching for objects, supervised floor play

Toddlers (1-3 years):

At least 3 hours of active play throughout the day

Preschoolers (3-5 years):

At least 3 hours of activity daily, with at least 1 hour of moderate-to-vigorous physical activity

School-age children (6+ years):

At least 60 minutes of moderate-to-vigorous physical activity daily

Encourage family meals, limit screen time during meals, and be a role model for healthy eating and active living.

Birth to Three

Birth to Three is a state-funded resource for infants and toddlers with developmental delays. If you have concerns about your child's development, these programs can provide evaluations and support services.

Westchester County, New York

Phone: (914) 813-5094

www.health.ny.gov

For general information about early intervention services:

General Information (NICHY)

Car Seat Information

Understanding the Connecticut Car Seat Law

Rear Facing Car Seat

  • Children under 2 years old must remain in a rear facing car seat with a 5-point harness.
  • Children under 30 lbs. must remain in a rear facing car seat with a 5-point harness.

Forward Facing Car Seat

  • Children must be at least 2 years old.
  • Children must be at least 30 lbs.
  • Children who meet both of these requirements must be secured by a 5-point harness and ride in either a forward or rear facing car seat.

Booster Seat

  • Children must be at least 5 years old.
  • Children must be at least 40 lbs.
  • Children must remain in a car seat secured by a 5-point harness or a booster seat using both the lap and shoulder belt until they are at least 8 years old AND 60 lbs.

Seatbelt

  • Children must be at least 8 years old AND 60 lbs. before transitioning out of a car seat or booster seat.
  • The vehicle lap and shoulder belt MUST always be used.
  • "Best Practice" is to use a booster seat beyond the minimum legal requirements.

Additional Information

  • Always read the car seat and vehicle manuals when installing and using a car seat or booster seat.
  • Violators of this law may be issued fines and must participate in a Department of Motor Vehicles mandatory class on child passenger safety or face license suspension.
  • If you have questions or would like to schedule a car seat inspection, call Yale New Haven Children's Hospital Injury Prevention Program at 203-200-KIDS.
  • Information contained in this handout comes from Connecticut statute 14-100 (d), effective October 1, 2017.

Source: Yale NewHaven Health, Yale New Haven Children's Hospital

For more helpful information:

The Car Seat Lady

Travel Information

Please contact our office well in advance of foreign travel to assist in any needed vaccine planning.

CDC Travelers' Information

Be sure to keep updated for safe and healthy travel. The CDC provides comprehensive information on travel health notices, required vaccinations, and safety recommendations for destinations worldwide.

Visit the Travelers Information Site

Safety

Home, Car and Outside Safety

Learn about how to ensure safety for your family in various environments.

Visit the Home, Car, and Outside Safety Site →

Computer and Cell Phone Safety

Get up to date with recent issues and discussions about digital safety for children.

Visit the Computer and Cell Phone Safety Site →

Burn Awareness

Thank you to Shriners Hospitals for Children Burn Awareness for this great information. Please visit their website for more information.

Visit Shriner's Hospital Burn Awareness Site

Be Burn Aware! Be Safe Around Electricity

In the U.S., electrical burns and injuries from lightning result in approximately 3,000 admissions to specialized burn units annually, and result in about 1,000 fatalities. In addition, electrical fires in residences cause more than 25,000 fires annually.

Remembering a few basic safety tips can help keep you and your children safe.

In Your Home, Especially if Young Children are Present:

  • Place covers on all electrical outlets.
  • Unplug all electrical items within a child's reach.
  • Do not allow toys that must be plugged into an outlet.
  • Teach your children to never touch electrical outlets or play with electrical cords.

In Your Home, for Everyone's Safety:

  • Use extreme caution when using electrical appliances near water.
  • Do not overload electrical outlets.
  • Replace electrical items that show signs of wear, such as frayed wires.
  • Keep your clothes dryer free of lint accumulation to avoid it becoming a fire hazard.
  • If you are in or standing in water, do not touch anything electrical.
  • Do not use extension cords to plug in appliances.
  • Plug items in appropriately (do not force a three-prong plug into a two-prong outlet).
  • Use certified surge protectors and power strips.
  • Keep clothes, curtains, and other flammable items away from heat sources.
  • Use correct wattage light bulbs.

And Outside, Remember to:

  • Come indoors and remain there during an electrical storm (one with lightning strikes).
  • Never play near electrical wires.
  • Stay away from areas marked DANGER: HIGH VOLTAGE.
  • Never climb utility poles, transmission towers, etc.
  • Do not climb trees that are near power lines.
  • Do not throw anything at utility poles or wires.
  • Only fly kites in dry weather and in open spaces. If your kite does get caught in an electrical wire, call the electric company for help.

Contact a Qualified Electrician:

  • If you have recurring instances of blown fuses or tripping circuit breakers
  • If you experience a tingling feeling when touching an electrical tool or appliance
  • If your outlets or switches are warm or discolored
  • If there is a burning or rubber-like smell coming from an appliance
  • If you have flickering lights
  • If there are sparks coming from an outlet
  • If wall outlets are cracked or broken

Breast Feeding

We at Greenwich Pediatrics feel it is vital to support and encourage nursing mothers wholeheartedly! Sometimes it is helpful to have a lactation consultant work individually with mothers and their infants.

Lactation Consultation Services

We are pleased to offer Lactation Consultation Services through our office.

Please call the office at 203-637-3212 to arrange a consultation.

Autism Information

Sound Advice

Read for more information about screening and diagnosis, and as usual, ask us about any questions you might have.

This is an edited transcript of an interview with Dr. Susan Levy, who is a developmental pediatrician and medical director of the Regional Autism Center at The Children's Hospital of Philadelphia. She is a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics Autism Subcommittee.

What is autism?

Autism is one of a group of developmental disorders, the category of which is called Autism Spectrum Disorder or what people commonly say are the ASDs. Children who have ASD have problems with social interaction, communication, and restricted or repetitive behaviors. The other diagnoses in this category are Asperger's Syndrome and Pervasive Developmental Disorder - Not Otherwise Specified, or PDD-NOS. And even though there are three diagnoses in the category, each child, regardless of which diagnosis they have, has different ranges of development and issues, and how many symptoms they have and how severely they're affected can vary greatly from one child to another. Although many people have heard these terms, the most recent classification of autistic disorders does not single them out, preferring to lump them under the autism diagnosis.

What are the early signs of autism?

Every child with an Autism Spectrum Disorder or autism can have different symptoms, so the early signs are very variable. We've started to call some of the early signs red flags to really emphasize how important it is to recognize them and bring them to attention of professionals. Young children who have a red flag, it may not necessarily be a sign that the child has autism, but it should really result in an evaluation by the child's family doctor or a specialist.

Red flags can be different according to how old the child is and any other delays they may have. For children under 2, the really important red flags are no babbling by 12 months; no gesturing, which includes pointing or waving bye-bye by 12 months; no single words by 16 months; and no two-word phrases by 24 months, not just repeating words. The most important red flag that we need to keep in mind is if a child has any loss of any language or social skills at any age they should be evaluated by their pediatrician or a specialist as soon as possible.

For older children the red flags or the early signs may be more subtle and they involve how they communicate with other people, whether it be peers or adults, how their social skills are and interaction with other people and may include any unusual or repetitive behaviors. Some of the examples of communication concerns are: that the child does not respond to his name; that the child may appear deaf at times or have inconsistent hearing; if the child doesn't point or wave bye-bye or use gestures. Important social concerns are if the child is serious and doesn't smile socially or appears serious; the child seems to prefer to play alone or is just not interested in interacting with other children; the child has poor eye contact or seems to be in his own world and has been described as tuning out others. And lastly, the behavioral concerns include a child who gets stuck on things over and over; may do the same activities repeatedly; gets upset by what seem to be minor changes in either routine or what's going to happen; has obsessive interests or has some unusual motor actions, such as flapping their hands or rocking their body or spinning themselves or objects in circles.

When should children be screened for autism?

If a parent or a clinician has any concerns about development or has seen any of the red flags, in essence, they've already been screened and they should be referred for further evaluation. The American Academy of Pediatrics recently recommended that pediatricians monitor every child's development or what they call surveillance at each well-child visit.

If a parent has any concern or a child has any of the red flags that I talked about, the pediatrician should work to help the family with getting a referral for further evaluation either in the community or through early intervention services of the school district.

When is autism usually detected?

Research so far has shown that signs of autism are often evident before 3 years of age, and we feel pretty comfortable that we can reliably diagnose it by that time. More recently there have been some studies that have described that routine screening has helped us to identify the children even earlier who may be at risk for a diagnosis, which may be closer to age 2. And we're really hopeful that as we start to use more consistent screening that we can identify children at risk who are even younger than 2 years old.

About 20 percent of children who end up having an Autism Spectrum Disorder will have a loss of social or language skills called a regression, which was the red flag that I mentioned before that should result in immediate referral, and they have this about 18 months to 24 months. That should bring them to the attention of medical or developmental specialists to really look for the cause of this regression. We hope that through increased awareness by families and clinicians, and it's in the news all of the time, and some newer strategies for screening that we really can keep lowering the age that we can identify children at risk for having the diagnosis.

A child who has Asperger's Syndrome might not be diagnosed until he or she is a little older, probably early elementary school age, as his or her language may not be as delayed and they may not have as many significant issues in the early years.

Why is it important to detect autism early?

Research has shown that children who've been diagnosed early, particularly 2 and under, and have started treatment have the best outcome. Most children who have an ASD may benefit from different types of treatment, including behavioral treatment, speech language therapy, occupational therapy and sometimes physical therapy, and these types and intensity of therapies are based on the child's strengths and weaknesses.

Contact

If you have questions or concerns about autism, please contact us to discuss these issues. Families can also contact state-funded early-intervention services for children under 3 or their local school district for children older than 3 to request an evaluation and potentially receive services.

Find information on early intervention at www.nichcy.org.